Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen. - Ben Franklin
What is happening now can be upsetting at first. It can be experienced as something that undemines your capacities, what you stand for in the present. You may have thought of resisting, fighting and asserting your right. However, after giving it much thought, weighing the explosive sentiments inside your head, you realize that everything that is going on, everything that seem to pose an obstacle to your progress as a person, is actually leading you to an ultimate goal, a goal that deep inside your heart, is being considered as something unattainable.
So don't fret. God is working on your chess game. Now, it's up to you to help yourself and complement and concretize that desire. It's up to you to ponder on how God wants you to "check" your opponent. A little disappointment will result into a huge success. The universe will conspire to heed the desire of your heart.